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Love Bombing

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They did not arrive with sharpened knives. — No.

They did not arrive with sharpened knives.
No.
They came bearing flowers,
soft voices,
carefully rehearsed concern,
and smiles so polished
they reflected heaven
while hiding hell behind their teeth.
They called control,
love.
They called possession,
protection.
They called surveillance,
care.
And when their victim began to disappear,
they whispered to the crowd,
"Look how broken they are."
As though they had not spent years
breaking every mirror
that person had ever used
to recognize themselves.
This is the oldest magic
the cruel have ever practiced.
Wound a soul.
Hide the weapon.
Become the physician.
Then convince the village
the bleeding began on its own.
An empath is not weak.
They simply believe
that every heart beats
to the rhythm of honesty.
So when deception wraps itself
inside affection,
they search themselves
instead of questioning the embrace.
They think,
"Perhaps I misunderstood."
"Perhaps I am too sensitive."
"Perhaps I deserved this."
While the puppeteer smiles,
because confusion
is stronger than chains.
A prisoner who doubts reality
will often lock the cage
from the inside.
Love bombing.
Such a harmless sounding phrase
for such a violent theft.
It is not love.
Love does not arrive
like a flood
only to disappear
the moment obedience is expected.
Love does not build kingdoms
out of another person's insecurity.
Love does not make someone addicted
to the very hand
that keeps pushing them underwater.
That is not affection.
It is bait.
Then comes the second act.
The campaign.
Quiet conversations
held in louder whispers.
"I worry about them."
"They aren't taking care of themselves."
"They've changed."
"They're mentally unwell."
Never mentioning
who emptied their strength.
Who stole their sleep.
Who taught them
to apologize
for breathing.
The executioner
always prefers witnesses
who never saw the blade.
How strange
that those who treat another
as less than human
are always the first
to question
their humanity.
They reduce a soul
to an object.
Then gasp in horror
when the object
can no longer smile.
But truth...
Truth has a pulse
that manipulation cannot imitate.
It survives beneath rubble.
It breathes beneath slander.
It remembers itself
long after lies
have grown tired
from repeating their own names.
One day,
the fog lifts.
Not because someone explained it—
but because peace
finally sounds more familiar
than chaos.
The victim stops asking,
"What is wrong with me?"
and begins asking,
"Who taught me to believe I deserved this?"
That single question
has collapsed empires.
So hear this,
every gentle soul
whose kindness became
someone else's hunting ground:
Your compassion
was never your weakness.
Your trust
was never your disease.
The sickness belonged
to those
who mistook empathy
for easy prey.
Do not surrender your heart.
Only your blindness.
For love
has never required confusion.
Truth
has never demanded you
betray yourself.
And any hand
that must erase your identity
before it can hold you
was never reaching
for your heart.
Only your silence.
Walk away.
Not because they deserve loneliness—
but because you deserve reality.
There is a holy difference.

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